Human beings are not islands unto themselves. Even the most introverted and secluded amongst us need others to succeed and be happy. Some people are more self sufficient than others, but there is something about the human experience that thrives on cooperation. Working with others allows us to achieve great things.

When the people around us share a common goal or insight with our own, cooperation is easy. But what about the times we don’t have much in common with the people from whom we need cooperation? These are the situations where humility, humor and logic come into play. Most leaders are not born, they earn the title. A large part of earning a position of leadership comes from learning to bring people together – regardless of the circumstances. Being the first to take a step toward the other shows humility and confidence. It’s rare that making the first effort isn’t rewarded with someone else making at least the same amount of effort. Lightening the mood with a smile can bring people together immediately. Emotions can be useful, but logically appealing for cooperation usually makes others feel more respected and open to the experience of working toward a greater cause.What’s 1 more click? Your boss isn’t watching… Men Cooperate as Well as Women – Sometimes